I was born in 1943, so have seen how things have changed, for the worse, over the years. We were taught to be responsible for our actions and character was all important.
Now, everyone gets a “participation” trophy so nobody feels bad, and it’s always the other guys fault, or that of society, when people make very bad choices and/or are complete failures.
The video below explains a lot. Take time to watch it and think about it.